The Hard Rider by Manbound – I Like It Doggie Style!!

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Sometimes the simplest of device or design can yield the most pleasure and excitement.  The Hard Rider (also known as Doggie Rider) is just the strap to get the job done!  If you don’t have a “doggie-style strap” in your bag of tricks, make the ridiculously affordable investment today.   Firstly, this strap will give the top complete control and thrust-ability while the bottom is on all fours begging for more!  And it’ll keep your top in excellent upper body shape, toning their biceps, shoulders and pecs while giving the bottom all that they can ask for.

Secondly, IF you’re a creative bedroom gymnast like myself, you can, as the bottom, flip over and use it like any other positioning/angling wedge or ramp, or what I like to call the Swing Set For Big Kids!  While on the bottom, your top can take control of the strap and lift your bum up to get the right angle every time, and explore other angles yet discovered!

Lastly, you can use the Hard Rider, as a quick and simple/elementary spreader bar, using the loops designed for hands as a foot “restraints” and while in missionary position, the top can have control of how far back the bottom’s legs go…  You’ve seen contortionists perform this feat, now and with a little practice, you could have your legs over and behind your head before you know it!

And just a quick mention here, the Doggie-Style Strap by Sportsheets is basically the same product/design, but the Hard Rider is packaged and marketed to reach out to a gay male demographic

I rate the Hard Rider 5 out of 5 stars for price point, versatility and getting the job done!  Now off to the races! *****

Review by Eric ZONK, Sexploratorium

Positively Sexy Video: Lick It

Just in time to whet your appetites for Thursday’s “Getting Down with Going Down on her” workshop with Chelsea Olivia, we are posting Karrie S’s nomination for “Positively Sexy Video”

We are not sure how we missed the debut of this song on the Showtime series The L Word, but we are thankful to have found the video for Lick It by God Des & She

God-Des & She are a hip hop/pop/ soul duet from New York (via Madison Wisconsin) whose talented drag kings models combine with witty lyric make this humorous look at sex education (not to mention the implied art of cunning-lingual performance) positively wrong in all of the right ways! A dancing vagina in front of an ice cream truck isn’t supposed to be hot, is it?  Who knew?

Lyrics for the song include:

…pick her up and set her on your face
pick a large area, give her some space
she needs some room to place your mouth where she want it
let her ride your face like she’s about to come on it…

Sounds like great advice to us!

Check out the official Goddess and She website for tour dates, downloads and other news! We hope to see/hear these folks at upcoming Pride events and festivals (and anywhere else for that matter)!

Nominate your choice for “Positively sexy video” with any video (old or new) that you know to have a sex-positive message. In other words, a sexy video that is not phobic, judgmental or just plain tacky. Humor is encouraged, sexiness (and a certain amount of sophistication) is mandatory!

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May: A Month-long Masturbation Holiday!

In 1995, then Surgeon General of the United States Dr. Joycelyn Elders was fired for agreeing with an interviewer that masturbation “is part of sexuality and should be taught.”

The ensuing controversy surrounding her (not so very radical to those of use in the sexuality education world) statements provided more humorous utterances of the word “masturbation” in the media than at any other time in history (or since). The ridiculousness the situation that got her fired as U.S. Surgeon General prompted the sexuality revolutionaries at Good Vibrations in San Francsico to declare May National Masturbation Month.

And although it is often asserted (mostly by men) that “Masturbation doesn’t need to be taught,” we promise you (especially women) that there is much to learn from others! So take the class (below) or at least check out the book Tickle your fancy by Dr. Sadie Allison and get equipped for your own celebration! Additionally, all masturbation sleeves and battery powered vibrators are 15%off til May 31.

At Sexploratorium, we celebrate National Masturbation Month each year by offering special classes and events. This year, that event will be Pleasure Rush on Saturday May 14th at AROUSE, a workshop and toy party especially for women interested in perfecting self-pleasuring techniques and swapping secrets! Toy orders placed that night benefit GALEI.

Also be sure to check out  Sexploratorium’s upcoming Passion 101 Classes  with May workshops on anal sex and the g-spot that include tips and tricks for very specific kinds of self-stimulation! Tell a friend!